“People who deny the existence of dragons are often eaten by dragons. From within.”

Ursula K. Le Guin
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Respecting House Rules and Play Party Etiquette keeps everyone safe and our community dungeon sustainable.

Outside Rules

(Let’s keep neighbors happy!)

  • Do not block anyone’s driveway ever, even temporarily.
  • Do not loiter outside the gate.
  • Do not speak in loud voices or engage in indiscreet conversation where neighbors can hear you.
  • Do not wear inappropriate clothing while outside or in the neighborhood.
  • Do not have BDSM gear sticking out of your bag while outside or in the neighborhood.

House Rules

  • No illegal drugs.
  • No illegal activities.
  • No non-consensual activities.
  • No one under 21 years old.
  • No play allowed with anyone inebriated or not of sound mind.
  • No screaming or loud yelling.
  • No unsupervised use of bondage, blindfolds, or gags.
  • No non consensual photography or video.
  • No electricity play (violet wand okay) without permission.
  • No blood play without permission.
  • No fire play.
  • No gun play.
  • No choking.
  • No wax play around rugs or without a disposable surface barrier.
  • No smoking inside. (If smoking outside, dispose of cigarette butts responsibly)
  • No personal locks on the equipment.

Safety First!

  • Always call 911 in the case of a life threatening emergency.
  • Do not combine performance enhancing drugs and play!
  • AED kit (defibrillator) is mounted on the kitchen wall.
  • First Aid Kits are in all bathrooms and in the kitchen.
  • Emergency Autodialers are mounted on the refridgerators.
  • Fire extinguishers are mounted on the kitchen wall.
  • Smoke detectors, emergency lighting and flood lights are hardwired.

Play Party Etiquette

  • Thoroughly negotiate consensual play activities before entering into a scene.
  • Establish safe words or gestures before entering into a scene.
  • Do not disrespect the space or anyone in it.
  • Do not interrupt or invade the personal space of ongoing scenes.
  • Do not touch other people or their property without consent.
  • No photography or video without explicit consent and under supervised permission from the host.
  • All cell phone communications must take place outside or with explicit consent from the host.
  • Do not violate expressed boundaries.
  • Do not go into closed off areas.
  • Do not leave the front door open.
  • Do not go outside without appropriate clothing.
  • When outside, keep voices down.
  • Approach a Host or DM (red arm band) for any questions or concerns.
  • Use the cavicide spay or wipes provided to sanitize all used and possibly exposed surfaces.
  • Thoroughly wipe up any floor messes or spills to avoid tracking and falls.
  • Place all used linens in the kitchen hampers.
  • Use the gloves provided when handling lube or any biohazardous material.
  • Throw away used disposable materials in the garbages provide.