“People who deny the existence of dragons are often eaten by dragons. From within.”

Ursula K. Le Guin
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Respecting House Rules and Play Party Etiquette keeps everyone safe and our community dungeon sustainable.

Outside Rules

(Let’s keep neighbors happy!)

  • Do not block anyone’s driveway ever, even temporarily.
  • Do not loiter outside the gate.
  • Do not speak in loud voices or engage in indiscreet conversation where neighbors can hear you.
  • Do not wear inappropriate clothing while outside or in the neighborhood.
  • Do not have BDSM gear sticking out of your bag while outside or in the neighborhood.

House Rules

  • No non-consensual activities.
  • No illegal activities.
  • No illegal drugs.
  • No performance enhancing drugs (can lead to medical emergencies).
  • No one under 21 years of age.
  • No play allowed with anyone inebriated or not of sound mind.
  • No screaming or loud yelling, except in case of emergency.
  • No unsupervised use of bondage, blindfolds, or gags.
  • No non-consensual photography or video.
  • No electricity play (violet wand okay) without permission from the host.
  • No blood play without permission from the host.
  • No wax play without permission from the host.
  • No fire play (flash cotton okay).
  • No gun play.
  • No sharp knife play.
  • No choking.
  • No smoking inside, if smoking outside, use ash tray provided.
  • No personal locks on the equipment.

Safety First!

  • Always call 911 in the case of a life threatening emergency.
  • In the case of an in scene emergency, yell “SAFE WORD”!
  • Do not combine performance enhancing drugs and play!
  • AED kit (defibrillator) is mounted on the kitchen wall.
  • First Aid Kits are in all bathrooms and in the kitchen.
  • Emergency Autodialers are mounted on the refrigerators.
  • Fire extinguishers are mounted on the kitchen wall.
  • Smoke detectors, emergency lighting, and flood lights are hardwired.

Play Party Rules and Etiquette

  • Thoroughly negotiate consensual play activities before entering into a scene.
  • Inform your play partner immediately of any relevant medical issues.
  • Establish safe words before entering into a scene.
  • Agree on clear limits and boundaries, including marking, before entering into a scene.
  • Do not violate expressed boundaries. If you are unclear, ASK.
  • Behave in a respectful manner at all times. Disrespectful behavior is grounds for expulsion.
  • Approach a Host or DM (red arm band or vest) for any questions or concerns.
  • Do not interrupt or invade the personal space of ongoing scenes.
  • Do not hog a play station!
  • Do not place toys bags in a way that blocks play stations or foot paths.
  • No heavy cruising.
  • Do not touch other people or their property without consent.
  • No photography or video without explicit consent from the host.
  • No cell phone calls or texts without explicit consent from the host.
  • Do not use house related play items without explicit consent from the host.
  • Do not go into closed off areas.
  • Do not leave the front or kitchen doors open.

Play Party Cleaning Protocol

  • Use the Cavicide spay or wipes provided to thoroughly wipe down all used surfaces.
  • Thoroughly wipe up any floor messes or spills to avoid tracking and falls.
  • Wash your hands thoroughly after scene play!
  • No bare genitals outside of scene play.
  • Use the gloves provided when handling lube or any biohazard material.
  • Throw away used disposable materials in the garbages provide.
  • Do not flush anything other than toilet paper down the toilet!
  • Report anyone who did not clean up after their scene properly to the host or DM.